How To Eat Pussy

vagina teaseOral sex may be among the most frequently performed sex acts in existence, but that doesn’t mean a lot of couples don’t miss out.  There are a number of reasons that partners may skip out of oral sex, but one of the most common reasons is simply that no one has taught them how to do it.   Oral sex is, in many ways, a more intimate form of sex than intercourse is, and as such, people can become very self-conscious while performing (or receiving) it.

It also is a bit more challenging to learn how to do, since naturally, as a guy, you don’t have the same sex organs your female partner does.  Just as your partner probably had a learning process to go through in order to be able to deliver a great blowjob, there is a learning process for you to learn how to perform great cunnilingus.

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You may feel uncomfortable about not knowing how to eat pussy, but the fact is, no guy is born knowing what to do down there.  You don’t have the same sexy bits, so how can you possibly know what to do without some instruction?  Here are our tips for eating pussy and doing it well.  Be prepared for a bit of a learning curve, but try not to get too anxious or wound up about it.  Sex is supposed to be fun, and you’ll have a lot more fun if you are able to relax.

Oral sex can add fun to your sex life by giving you more activities to do to keep things fresh.  It’s a great alternative to intercourse, or it can work well as foreplay leading up to intercourse.  For couples who have difficulty synching up timing, it can be a great technique for getting around premature ejaculation.  How eating pussy fits into your sex life depends on your preferences and your partner’s.

Position Yourself for a Good Time

Positioning yourself to eat pussy is a little more difficult than having your partner position herself for a blowjob, simply because of the way things are set up down there.  Before you can give good oral sex, you’ll need to both get into a position where you can perform comfortably and effectively.  One good trick (if your partner is lying down on her back) is to prop up her pelvis using a couple of cushions.  This will make it easier to reach.

Face Sitting Sex Position

A variation of the face sitting position

Starting out the first time with your partner lying down on her back is probably the easiest position.  But there are a lot of other oral sex positions you can try as well, including standing cunnilingus and facesitting.  If you have trouble applying the proper amount of pressure and precision, facesitting is a great position since it will give your partner more control.  Trying new positions can also make for more fun and excitement.

What Do You Do Down There?

Once you’ve gotten yourself established, what should you actually be doing down there to give your lady a fun time?  The best advice is probably to be uninhibited, and try to have a good time yourself.  When you’re really enthusiastic, good sex typically follows naturally.  Don’t lick your partner like you’re painting a fence.  Painting a fence is a tedious chore, right?  If you perform oral sex like it’s a tedious chore, neither of you will have much fun.  One mistake a lot of guys make is going straight for the clitoris and ignoring the rest of their partner’s nethers.  You can also stimulate your partner’s labia, inner thighs, and even use your tongue to penetrate her.  You can lick, kiss, suck, even gently nibble.  Experiment and explore.  Part of the fun of sex is finding out what turns you both on.

vagina diagram

Also, don’t forget about your hands.  You don’t have to ignore your hands just because you’re using your mouth.  This is especially good advice in cases where you aren’t able to apply enough pressure or precision using your mouth alone.  You also can use your hands on other parts of your partner’s body while you are eating pussy.

Take Advice from Your Partner

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You should encourage your partner to give you feedback while you’re performing.  There are a lot of couples who have a hang-up about talking about sex.  This is probably because talking about sex is a very intimate thing to do, and it can cause people to get self-conscious and worry that they are being judged.  Once you get used to talking about sex, though, it won’t seem that strange, and you’ll both probably be really glad you did.

Sometimes people make the assumption that if they were in previous relationships, they should know what they’re doing when they perform oral sex with their current partner.  This isn’t really the case, however, because people experience sensation and arousal very differently from one another.  So while you might have been great at performing oral sex on a past partner, you may not have a clue what you’re doing with your current partner.  It can happen the other way around, too.  You might have been really bad at oral sex with a previous partner (or simply had a partner who didn’t enjoy it), but may be able to give great oral sex to your new partner with some instruction.

You can pay attention to the nonverbal feedback your partner provides you to try to gauge her arousal (how wet she is, whether she is breathing more quickly or more shallow, whether her pelvic muscle are tense, etc.), but there is nothing which can replace genuine, honest, up-front verbal feedback.  Pay attention to your partner’s feedback and adjust what you’re doing accordingly.  If she tells you she likes something, do more of it.  If she doesn’t like something else, then you can try something new.  If she asks you to try something specific, go for it.  There is no one who knows your partner’s body better than she does, so she’s the best person to teach you how to give great oral sex.

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