How to Lick Pussy

Oral sex can make a great foreplay activity or it can be a great sex act all on its own, and not just a prelude to sexual intercourse.  Not all women can have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone—in fact, the vast majority can’t.  Surveys have shown that something like three quarters of women require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm.  There are other reasons that some women may prefer oral sex as well; some women find intercourse painful (this is more common than you might think).  Oral sex is also a great way to have safe sex without worrying about birth control.  Practical reasons aside, it offers you yet another way to connect to your partner and have a good time.

For some partners, oral sex is a form of foreplay, while for others it may be the main activity.  If it’s going to be the main activity for you and your partner, you might want to do some additional foreplay first to warm up for the main act.  If oral sex is your foreplay, it can really give your sex life a boost if you have timing problems during intercourse.  Premature ejaculators can sometimes solve their problem just by getting their timing to match with their partner’s this way.  Women typically need significantly more time than men to get aroused to the point where they can climax, so licking pussy can help your partner get to the point of arousal where she can climax at the same time as you during intercourse.

Getting Into Position

One thing which is sometimes overlooked in discussions about oral sex is getting into position.  It’s difficult to give good cunnilingus if you’re not well positioned to do it.  There are actually dozens of different positions you can get into for cunnilingus.  These positions can all be fun to try; only by experimenting will you find the positions which you and your partner find most comfortable, effective, and enjoyable.  While the simplest position is just for your partner to lie down on her back and you to lie down on your stomach between her legs, there are many other ways you can do things:  You can lie on your back and she can lie on top of you with her legs spread, she can sit on your face, you can try licking pussy while standing up and so on.  Check out our sex positions guide to get some ideas.  You can also try to improve positioning by using cushions or pillows to raise your partner’s pelvis while she’s lying down.  This will help open up her genital area and give you better access.

What To Do When You’re Down There

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There’s a lot you can do when you’re delivering oral sex.  While this article is titled “how to lick pussy,” that’s hardly all there is to it.  You can try other techniques as well, like kissing or sucking or even (if she’s open to it) lightly biting.  You can even use your breath to generate arousal by blowing on sensitive parts.  You also will want to learn your way around; men sometimes make the assumption that a woman’s genital area revolves around either the vagina or the clitoris, but it’s a complex area and every sexual partner you have may have different centers of arousal.

The clitoris is the main organ of arousal for the majority of women, and most women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, so that’s a good place to focus your efforts if you don’t know where else to begin.  You can also try penetrating your partner’s vagina with your tongue, and stimulating areas nearby like the inner thighs.  Many women have very sensitive labias as well, so try stimulating the skin around the clitoris.

Another thing to consider while you’re giving oral sex is what you’re doing with your hands.  Oftentimes men make the mistake of thinking that oral sex and fingering can’t go together.  You can use your hands while you’re using your mouth however to provide even more stimulation.  This can be helpful if you’re having precision problems.  A lot of women have trouble getting off during cunnilingus because it’s difficult to achieve enough precision and friction with the mouth.  Fingers can be more effective.  So try combining both to get an even better effect.  You also can use your hands to stimulate other parts of your partner’s body.

Getting Feedback

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There is a lot of feedback you can get from your partner with or without asking.  Pay attention to signs of arousal in your partner, such as her breathing, any sounds she’s making, her pulse, and tension or contractions in her abdominal or pelvic muscles.  Some of the best feedback you can get is verbal, however.  Your partner might give you specific instructions when you’re licking pussy.  If so, by all means, take those instructions into account and deliver.  Don’t be afraid to ask your partner for feedback during the experience either.

Sometimes men and women both make the mistake of believing that they are expected to perform perfectly when they give oral sex.  This is very silly in light of the fact that everyone is so different.  There is no way you could deliver amazing oral sex without getting to know your partner’s body, no matter how many partners you’ve had in the past. You may be nervous about asking for suggestions, but you shouldn’t be.  Odds are your partner will be glad to help you learn the ropes of her body, and will appreciate that you’re willing to learn instead of just assuming that you’re perfect at what you’re doing.  It may seem deliberate and may make you self-conscious at first, but most people adapt once they learn how to talk about sex.  Learning about how your partner gets aroused is part of the intimacy of sex, so look at this as yet another way to get to know your partner better and enjoy more mindblowing sex.

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